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The Truth About Whether Your Ex Still Cares About You
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If you want to know how to tell if your ex still cares, then this article will show you how. In this article I’m going to show you how to “test” whether they care about you (without them knowing), how to read their reactions to this test, and some risks to avoid while testing if they care about you still. By the time you’ve finished reading this article, you’ll have a good strategy you can use to see if your ex still cares about you next time you see them, and you may even learn how to get your ex back.
Let’s begin by discussing how you can actually “test” if they still care about you, without them feeling like you’re testing them. Here’s how it works. Everyone has their own “personal space” which they are comfortable or uncomfortable with letting people in, depending on how they feel about them. You’ve experienced this yourself. If a stranger sits too close to you, you will feel uncomfortable. But if your best buddy does this you feel comfortable.
When two people care about each other, they will do little things for each other like wipe dust from their shoulder, straighten their clothes, wipe food from the corner of their mouth, things like this. The easiest and quickest way to “test” if your ex is still thinking about you, is to use one of these techniques at the right time, and judge for yourself based on their reaction.
Here’s how you judge their reaction. If they aren’t looking comfortable about what happened, then you know they probably don’t “care” about you in that way any more. Maybe they just don’t want to be in a close relationship with you any longer.
But if they seem happy about what you did, it shows they still care about you as more than a friend.
Before you try this test there’s a few things you should know. Firstly, these results aren’t always conclusive. In the end, you should be able to judge the response based on what it was you did for them and how the reacted. You also want to make sure what you’re doing is “in character” to what they’re familiar with around you, so you don’t shock them. If you’re doing something for them which you’ve never done before, they may feel suspicious or surprised.
Finally, you need to make sure you aren’t “caught looking for a reaction”. If they suspect it’s some kind of test, or if they think you’re looking for a specific response from them, then this will make them feel uncomfortable.
A great resource for learning more about getting your ex back and fixing your relationship is the Magic of Making Up, by TW Jackson.
In conclusion, this article has shown you a simple way for finding out how to tell if your ex still cares. Now that you have finished reading this guide, you will how to come to a conclusion about whether they still care about you.
