If you want to get your ex back even if you feel the situation is hopeless, then this article was written for you. Specifically, we’re going to show you the best way to “react” to the news you’re breaking up, why you should respect their decision, and how to make them “doubt” they’ve made the right choice. By the time you’ve finished reading this article, you’ll have a good idea about how you can get your ex back easier than you may have thought.
The first (and critical) step for winning back your ex, is making sure you act in the right way when you first learn they’re going to break it off with you. Your “gut reaction” is to probably feel scared, angry hurt, and to generally “disagree” to their decision. This is just a nutural response, but you don’t have to act on it - because if you do, you’re going to make it harder for yourself later on.
A better strategy is to agree with them that the breakup is the right thing to do. This alone will probably surprise them, and show you in a non-needy light – which is going to work in your favor later on. Also, remember that a breakup may only be temporary, despite what they say. People are emotional creatures, not logical. If they are telling you they never want to hear from you again, and they never want to see your face again - don’t get too upset - it’s just their emotions talking. One of the worst decisions you can make is to fight or resist their decision - you’ll just reinfoce it and make it stronger.
In fact, you do react in a negative manner, you’re going to help them reinforce their decision every time you show this emotion. So keep your cool and don’t over-react when you find out they’re going to break it off with you. You just need to agree with them that it’s a good idea for you to both take a break from your relationship.
The next step is how to make them doubt their making the right decision. Sure, some people are going to interpret this as being manipulative or deceptive, but you can make what you will of this technique. If you act in a supportive way and agree that they’re making the right decision, you’re going to place a seed of doubt in their mind. They will start worrying if they’re making the right decision, because you’re taking this information so well.
Reinforce the idea that you two should take a break for now, to give you BOTH time to think things over. This will also place the seed that you’re considering breaking up with them, too.
In conclusion, this article has shown you some powerful techniques for how to get your ex back even if the situation seems hopeless. These things were reacting appropriately the the break up news, respecting their initial decision fully, and how to place a “seed of doubt” in their mind about whether breaking up with you is what they really want. Now that you’ve read this article, you’re armed with a powerful psychological technique for getting your ex back.
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